Raising Contented Kids

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By Dr Bill Maier

A friend wrote me about something that happened at her five year old's birthday party.

Her daughter kept looking around the room as she opened her gifts. "What's wrong?" her mother asked. "I'm just looking for the rest of the gifts," her daughter answered. The mother wasn't too happy about her child's behaviour.

I told her not to be too worried. Five year olds are still learning concepts like unselfishness and gratitude. But the incident showed just how easily kids can fall into the trap of materialism.

Today's culture is saturated with greed and self-centredness. It's an uphill battle to raise kids with greatful, contented hearts, but it can be done.

Begin by modelling a healthy attitude. Remember to be thankful for the many blessings in your life, and teach your children to do the same.

You might volunteer your family to work at a homeless shelter, or visit shut-ins at a nursing home. Kids always learn best through example.

From TODAY, Voices – Thursday, 10-Sep-2009

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