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On some points, I agree with the writer… two becoming one doesn't necessarily mean enslaving or dominating or dissolving the other person completely; the unity is simply more than just what we perceive. There is more to a person than what we see or hear. The unspoken and unheard, the unuttered and unannounced, the hushed… when becoming one means being one in thought, but not in the execution, one in mind, but not in the action… one in emotion, but different in the presentation or display of affection… ----- btw: ON DIFFERENCES IN A RELATIONSHIP ANA OW MY HUSBAND cannot see the light – when it comes to the styles of furnishings and fixtures that I prefer for our new apartment, that is. D and I have been shopping for pendant lights over the past few weekends and the number of items that we both like are a dismal few. "Sorry, but we are not having a pseudo-baroque chandelier in our bedroom," was D's last word on the matter after a couple of minor spats. He did, however,...

From FOCUS ON THE FAMILY Today • Tuesday • June 17, 2008 By Dr Bill Maier I’ve got a question for you. You say you’ve found your true soulmate, but how do you know for sure? Well, you could always get married and see if it works out. That’s what a lot of couples do, which is why so many new marriages fail. Or you could take the smart approach and evaluate your relationship through premarital counselling. A good counsellor can help you look at the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship. They’ll watch how you communicate, and determine your expectations in marriage. They’ll discern your values and your spiritual beliefs. They’ll also help you evaluate important issues that you may have never thought to discuss. For example, how many kids do you want to have? And what are your beliefs about discipline, school and other child rearing issues? Taking a compatibility test can uncover scores of potential conflict. Don’t leave your marriage to chance. Go into marriage with your eyes wide...