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Dealing with a clingy child

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From Focus on the Family Some children are just born clingy. No matter where mom is, they have to be right there by her side, usually hanging on for dear life. Over time it can get pretty frustrating – especially if they show no signs of letting up. Children who cling tend to be more shy and insecure. When they get into a new situation or feel cranky, clinging is their way of communicating that they’re uncomfortable. The worst thing you can do is to get frustrated and pry them away. Instead, take a few minutes to hug and reassure them and then talk to them about what they’re feeling. Tell them they can stay close but they can’t cling. You might promise a special time together later if they’ll let you get your work done. Above all, don’t worry. “Clinginess” is a phase that almost always passes in time. From TODAY, Voices - Friday, 03-Sep-2010 ----- Related articles by Zemanta Living with children: The clingy phase (seattletimes.nwsource.com) Some parents analyze too...

Negotiating flexi-time

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By Dr James Dobson Not all mums can stay home with their kids. But that doesn’t mean they have to settle for a poor work schedule. A lot of companies today are more child-friendly than we give them credit for. Sometimes, just asking for a change in schedule makes a lot of difference in the time we get to spend at home. And that change may take some negotiation, but it is worth the effort. Begin by learning all you can about your company ’s policy regarding flexitime. Then arrange a meeting with your boss to discuss your proposal. You may need to write your ideas on paper, so you don’t forget. And be specific. If you’re going to ask for a change, tell them exactly how you propose to do it while still getting your work done. Assure them that you’ll still be available for emergencies or additional work. Show your boss how it can be a win-win situation, and he’ll likely be more open to the idea than you might expect. From TODAY, Voices - Tuesday, 13-July-2010 ----- Related ...

Mummy’s Boy

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Image via Wikipedia By Dr Bill Maier Mothers have an extraordinary influence over their sons' futures. If you could peek into the lives of most successful men, you'd find a mother who planted those seeds of success while he was just a boy. When he faced a tough task or problem, she was there to cheer him on, saying: "I know you can do it!" When he messed up, she'd tell him: "You'll do better next time." When he accomplished a goal, she was quick to remind him what a bright boy he was. Mothers who stand behind their sons and encourage them in every situation are doing more than building their self-image. They are laying the groundwork for a lifetime of success and accomplishment. Most importantly, they're teaching them to never give up, no matter how hard life gets. From TODAY, Voices – Tuesday, 28-Jul-2009 Related articles by Zemanta Moms reveal why they gave up their children (msnbc.msn.com) Basics of Parenting (parenting-success.com) ...