When adolescents feel inferior
By Dr James Dobson Imagine being depressed and miserable over the shape of your nose, or the texture of your skin or the colour of your hair. Dissatisfaction with one's body is an experience that most adolescents live with every day. If you were to ask a hundred teenagers what they're most unhappy about, 80 per cent of them would describe some minor physical imperfection with which they're stuck. They're either too tall or too short. Or they feel fat or too thin. Or that they hate the freckles on their nose. And most teenagers have heard about these perceived flaws from their peers – who often judge human worth strictly on the basis of physical attractiveness. At least a portion of the anger and frustration usually associated with adolescence can be traced to this vicious system of values that runs amok during the adolescent years. In my book Preparing for Adolescence , I recommend that parents begin to teach a different system of values in the period immedia...