Think Before You Speak
From FOCUS ON THE FAMILY, Today, 07-Apr-2008 edition THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK By Dr Bill Maier “Think before you speak,” we tell our children. But how well are we taking our own advice? Very few of us would intentionally say things that hurt our children’s feelings, but too often the words we use can confuse them and do a lot of emotional damage – especially when they are young. Put yourself in the place of a young girl going through puberty. She develops a little chubbiness around her middle, and her friends have already made fun of her at school. Imagine how she feels when her mother says to her: “Do you really need to eat that dessert?” Or what about the boy who struggles to do well in school and then has to sit and listen as his parents brag about his sister’s straight-A average? What we say and how we say it can do irreparable harm ...