Thursday, July 03, 2008

KEEPING YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE

From FOCUS ON THE FAMILY

Today • Thursday • July 3, 2008

 

By Dr Bill Maier

 

Making friends is one thing; keeping them is another.

 

We all need friends in our lives to keep us going, but we don’t always have time to stay close.

 

The best relationships are long-term ones and there are a few concrete things we can do to keep our friendships alive and strong. Set aside some time to meet friends, even if it’s just for 30 minutes over a cup of coffee.

 

When life gets busy, it’s easy to go for months without seeing those who are important to us and that can be solved by a simple call.

 

Keep a list of special birthdays and anniversaries and don’t forget to send a card or note. It’s amazing how much it means to people when they know you care enough to remember special dates.

 

If you’re pressed for time, try coordinating your to-do lists. Maybe you could shop together or meet friends at the gym a few times a week.

 

It’s a great way to stay in touch with those you seldom get to see.

 

We all need friends.

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